[To dev/1.3] Pipe: Fixed the crashed VM for ITs & Added watcher thread for dataNode start (#17281)

[Caideyipi]

Description

As the title said.

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This PR has:

• been self-reviewed.
  • concurrent read
  • concurrent write
  • concurrent read and write
• added documentation for new or modified features or behaviors.
• added Javadocs for most classes and all non-trivial methods.
• added or updated version, license, or notice information
• added comments explaining the "why" and the intent of the code wherever would not be obvious
  for an unfamiliar reader.
• added unit tests or modified existing tests to cover new code paths, ensuring the threshold
  for code coverage.
• added integration tests.
• been tested in a test IoTDB cluster.

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Key changed/added classes (or packages if there are too many classes) in this PR

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Quality Gate passed

Issues
0 New issues
0 Accepted issues

Measures
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0.0% Coverage on New Code
0.0% Duplication on New Code

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Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 0% with 17 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 41.36%. Comparing base (a299189) to head (d36fcdf).

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
...ain/java/org/apache/iotdb/db/service/DataNode.java	0.00%	17 Missing ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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- Coverage      41.37%   41.36%   -0.01%     
  Complexity       198      198              
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  Files           3596     3596              
  Lines         236486   236503      +17     
  Branches       28623    28624       +1     
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+ Hits           97837    97840       +3     
- Misses        138649   138663      +14     

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